Challenge Your Assumptions!
Why do you do what you do? Why do you believe what you believe?
Most of your actions and your beliefs are based on assumptions that you have held for years. Are those assumptions blessing you and those you serve?
Take the next few days and carefully go through the different areas of your life - marriage, children, family, church, beliefs, business - and ask yourself how you think things are going. When you have thought it through, ask someone in each arena how they think you are doing - some one who will tell you the truth.
If all is well, then no problem. However, if your wife tells you your marriage could be better, or your kids are hesitant to talk, or your church isn't growing and lives aren't changing, then ask yourself, "What assumptions do I have that are not working?"
You may have gotten those assumptions from your parents, a book, something you decided years ago, or from someone else's example, but if they are not...
If you really want to impact the people to whom you speak, then you will want to watch this video.
I thought I'd do something special for you. This is a training video that will teach you just exactly how to capture your audience's attention, so much so that they talk about what you taught them after you are done, remember the message and want it to change their lives.
Isn't that why we do what we do? Ultimately, it is so that people's lives are changed. But that can't happen unless they remember what we say, and that won't happen unless we present it in such a way that God can use it. (Yes, God can use anyone and anything for His glory, but most of the time he counts on us to do the best with what He has given us!)
So, please accept this video as my gift to you!
You hear it preached, taught in schools, pushed in seminars, touted in books and urged on parents to encourage it in their kids.
All that from people who have no idea what is going to happen 1 minute, 1 day, 1 month or 1 year in the future, let alone in eternity.
I believe it can be one of the most powerful traps in our lives. One that will lead either to arrogance or despair.
Don't get me wrong. I believe in dynamic, strong, confident, incredible people. All three of my children were raised to be this way and I am married to a woman who is not only godly, but a wise, respected incredible attorney.
The key? The source from where our confidence flows.
In His Service,
Dr. Vance Hardisty
We know that millennials are leaving the church in droves and it breaks our hearts. As pastors and teachers we want to speak and communicate so that they hear, listen, make changes in their lives and want to come back, bring their friends and hear more!
But we have been told:
- there is a communication barrier
- we don't speak the same language
- we don't have the same values
- we are too old
- we ... you name it, they've said it.
The conclusion? Millennials can only be reached by someone their own age.
In fact, reaching them is fairly simple. Here are the four things that they want in every presentation. And the funny thing is, if you put these four things into your messages, you will end up reaching everybody.
First, thank you for the time you gave taking our survey “What would you tell Pastors and Teachers?”. This may have been a number of months ago, but you took a 3 question survey that I sent to you on LinkedIn.
I know you are busy, but please know that your input will bless others. These results help build the foundation for a series of seminars that I give to pastors, teachers, professors and chaplains internationally. We focus on training Pastors and Teachers in nations where they cannot afford either the time or expense to get an education. For each group, we bring the entire foundation of knowledge that they will need in order to carry out their calling in the Kingdom of God.
This survey about presentation skills is only one of over 20 topics that we teach.
To date, we have had 2868 leaders from dozens of nations take the survey and these are the results to date:
Question #1 How would you rate most pastors and teachers as speakers?...
"I love you!"
"You are more important to me than anyone or anything else (except God)."
"Will you go out with me?"
3 sentences to say to your spouse for a great marriage.
Miss these and you can mess up your ministry! Why? Because your relationship with your spouse radiates to everyone you meet and will either validate or negate everything you say from up front.
Often, because of the noise and confusion of life, we miss the 4 issues that can derail our leadership and ability to communicate.
These 4 things are difficult for us to see in ourselves. In fact, if you really want to know if you have them, you need to have the courage to ask those closest to you whether they see any of these 4 in you.
I know that I struggled when I heard that several of these were in my life. It was frustrating. I wanted to think I was better. But that thinking only delayed my dealing with the issues and prevented me from being the man God called me to be.
Don't make the mistake I made. Write these 4 issues down. Take them to your spouse or a best friend and ask them to be honest with you. If they say one or more of these are in your life, then tell them and the Lord you want to change. Ask them to hold you accountable, every time they see one of these beginning to show up. Then determine...
What does it take to teach so that your audience is impacted?
1. You must know why you are teaching. No, not the general why. Not because it is your job. You need to know why... why these people, why this day, why this subject, why this passage. These are questions that you should process over and over as you prepare.
2. You must know your audience. Don't write off this point if you have the same audience each week. On a regular basis, you should ask yourself if you really know where your people are, with what are they struggling, what are the real questions, what do they face in the real world? If your teaching does not directly address the people who are listening and where they are living, you are wasting your time.
3. Nail the application. So many teachers and preachers figure that the people will just figure this one out, or that God will graciously reveal it to them. That may be true for a small...
Be the visionary! Refuse to be average! People need you to go to the edge of the cliff, then call them out to see what an incredible life they could have if they would take the risk.
A visionary does not see things the way they were. Anyone can do that. A visionary does not see things as they could be. That is an encourager. Some people will say that a visionary sees things as they could be. Not so. A visionary see things as they ARE. They believe so strongly in what they know, that their vision propels people to be far more than they ever dreamed they could be.
Is a visionary a wishful thinker? Hardly. A visionary sees the future differently than others do for three primary reasons:
1. A visionary KNOWS who God is, how magnificent He is and what He can do through anyone.
2. A visionary KNOWS the potential of each person with whom he/she speaks is far greater than what they have yet lived up...
This IS your job and your calling! It is not just to impact the people who are present in your audience, it is about all the people that THEY know and will impact for generations.
So, you MUST operate in excellence. Prepare in excellence, work in excellence, perfect the message that God has given, pray diligently, because the message that you are delivering is for 10, 20 and 100 years from now.
Don't you dare settle!
The lives of the people to whom you speak will change, they will change the people around them, they will change their children, who will change their children. And one day, God will introduce you to all the people your message impacted because YOU were diligent and faithful to the calling God has on your life.